July 2014 archive
Recently, as part of Pantene’s #ShineStrong video campaign series, a video was released titled “Not Sorry”. This video depicts women who use the word “sorry” as a method of excusing themselves.
Let me just say, this video is so spot on. I have found myself saying sorry for virtually anything. The “Not Sorry” video is just another addition to the #ShineStrong videos.
The other one I came across is the labels that women receive in the workplace and around the world. For example, a woman washing her face is labeled as vain while the man who does so is labeled as neat.
I encourage you all to check out these videos and let me know your thoughts in the comments below. They are both pretty eye-opening.
This weekend is going to be chaotic and filled with music and good times. On Saturday, today, I am heading with my friends to go see Fall Out Boy and Paramore on Monumentour in Tampa. Then, right from there, we are heading to Orlando to crash at my cousins house and then go directly to Warped Tour on Sunday.
If you are going to Warped this weekend and need some last minute tips, check out this post where I shared mine.
I cannot wait to review the Tampa Monumentour show and share my Warped experience. Look out for my upcoming posts about these shows within the next week.
For several years, finding my “style” was something I didn’t view as important or was even remotely concerned with. Recently, though, I have been enjoying the world of fashion and beauty. The idea of slipping on a comfortable dress and feeling like a million bucks is something that I really resonate with. I now realize that you don’t have to give up comfort to feel nice and that “style” isn’t what every other girl is wearing, it is what you feel best in. To me, expressing myself through clothing is a method of creativity. Yes, for me this is quite a new idea but I am enjoying it.
I thought I would share how I have learned to appreciate style and how I found my personal style without having to focus on what everyone in my area was wearing. For those of you who are having trouble finding your personal style or even just want to emulate your personality more through your clothing, I hope my tips on how I found my “style” and how I apply it to my every day life helps.
1. Don’t Focus on Being Different or The Same
If you like something, wear it. Odds are soon enough you will find your style. Style is a representation of who you are, what you feel, and who you want others to view you as. As sad as it sounds, we often attain an idea of people based on their initial looks. Don’t get too caught up in thinking about what people will see you as, just more of how you want to see yourself. If you are in the store and see an outfit you like, that can become a part of your style. Once you realize what you a drawn to, own it.
2. Keep Your Eyes Open
The most important thing I have found when building my style or trying to feel more myself in what I wear is that the best way to find something you like is to see it on someone else. For me, most of my style inspiration is from street style. Street style is basically what people wear as they walk down the street. What other people wear on a daily basis is usually a good judgement for what you might be interested in wearing. This is not to contradict my previous tip, but to coincide with it. Wearing what someone else wore doesn’t mean that you aren’t being yourself. You may find a new way to spice up what someone else had on and make it feel like you.
3. Don’t Give Up What You Love
Being comfortable has always been super important to me so I decided that I would mesh this with any new outfit ideas. Not giving up what makes you happy and what you feel most like yourself in will help you find what your style truly is. In the same respect, just because you like something, doesn’t mean that everybody will. If you find something and are interested in wearing it, do just that. Don’t hold back.
While these tips seem miniscule and basic, I found that keeping these things in mind really helped me when I was deciding to pay more attention to what I was wearing. Don’t be afraid to be bold or basic, just as long as you feel great in whatever you are wearing.
Alternative Press, a magazine dedicated to the appreciation of underground, alternative music, held their first annual awards show on Monday evening. The APMAs were truly unlike any awards show and felt like a positive experience overall for the community.The evening was hosted by Mark Hoppus of Blink 182, rightfully, and was filled with performances, results and dedications, and a bit of debauchery.
The categories and winners were as follows:
Best Vocalist presented by Victory Records – Brendon Urie, Panic! At The Disco
Best Live Band presented by Vans Warped Tour – Pierce The Veil
Breakthrough Band presented by Beats Music – Crown The Empire
Best Bassist presented by Dyin 2 Live – Jaime Preciado, Pierce The Veil
Best International Band presented by Zepeda Brothers Productions – Bring Me The Horizon
Artist Philanthropic Award presented by Sub City/Take Action – All Time Low
Best Guitarist presented by Gibson – Phil Manansala, Of Mice & Men
Vanguard Award presented by AXS TV – Billy Corgan
Best Drummer presented by DW Drums – Mike Fuentes, Pierce The Veil
Icon Award presented by Blackstar Amplification – Joan Jett
Most Dedicated Fans presented by Fearless Records – Black Veil Brides
Guitar Legend Award presented by the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame – Slash
Song Of The Year presented by Epitaph Records – All Time Low w/Vic Fuentes of Pierce The Veil
Album Of The Year presented by Journeys – Bring Me The Horizon, Sempiternal
Artist Of The Year presented by Monster Energy – Fall Out Boy
Overall, the results seemed to depict what I had initially expected from the voting fans. The event being fan voted was the intention of the event. The slogan for the evening was “Your awards show. Your vote. Your night.” and though I appreciated this aspect, I felt as though it led some bands who deserved awards to get snubbed.
One band I wanted to see take an award home was Twenty One Pilots. The Ohio natives have blown up in the scene this past year with their album Vessel and deserved recognition.
Additionally, I wanted to see an award go to Paramore for their self-titled album because this album has truly redefined Paramore as a band and music in the scene entirely. I would have also liked A Day to Remember to take home an award for Common Courtesy. That being said though, I am very pleased that Bring Me the Horizon won for best album. Sempiternal was one album that has been in released in the past year that should complete artistic talent and individuality.
As for next year, I hope to see voting done differently so that it feels fair. I do like the idea of fans voting, but it leaves lots of room for bands that don’t promote enough or bands that have fans that aren’t as inclined to sit on their computers and vote all day.
That being said, I really enjoyed the APMAs and cannot wait to see how this awards show improves as time goes on. For this genre of music, this event is a positive and progressive movement.
What did you think of the APMAs? What do you want to see next year?
When I saw the previews start to surface for Finding Carter, I was thoroughly intrigued by the concept of the show. The plot revolves around a 16 year old girl, Carter, who discovers that the mother she has known all her life is actually her kidnapper. While the plot was refreshing, and certainly more real than some of the “reality” television that MTV broadcasts, I still felt wary knowing that this show could end in one of those “wow, that plot could have been done really well” type of shows. Even so, as the show premiered last evening, I sat down to watch all two hours of this new teen drama.
The episode started off refreshing as a witty teenager who actually gets along with her mother (first big shock) heads out for a night with friends. Much to my surprise, MTV actually depicted what typical teenagers would do on a night out. The gang broke into a closed carousel, one of Carter’s friends smoking weed, and (as the perfectly typical cherry on top) a discussion of friends with benefits even ensued. The evening ends in the arrest of the group, leading the police to finally discover Carter who had been missing since she was three.
The title character, Carter, is played by the wonderful Kathryn Prescott (who you may remember from the original British Skins). When I say wonderful, I mean she is the lead of the show for a reason. Prescott, who is 23 in real life, plays the 16 year old as if she was an actual 16 year old girl. It is demeaning sometimes how shows depict all teens and young adults as if they have no feelings or emotions that really matter. The dynamics of Carter alone will keep me coming back to this show.
I cannot only commend Prescott, though, because all of the characters show much more depth than of any show adapted for teens has recently. Carter’s birth mother Elizabeth (played by Cynthia Watros) is a strong, determined woman. So far, in the premier and the following episode that played consecutively after, Elizabeth has only been focused on finding the woman that kidnapped Carter, whom Carter still refers to as “mom”. This adds tremendous depth to the story and leads us to wonder is Carter truly better off with her “real” family? The lingering question of Carter’s seemingly fit mother’s intentions when she kidnapped her is thickening as well and I for one cannot wait for the official revelation of her motive.
The most brilliant aspect of this new drama is how it incorporates true feelings, emotions, and story lines in with teenage drama that inevitably comes. The females characters on Finding Carter are not just viewed as “weak” or “strong”, but actual complex individuals, both the mothers and daughters. This aspect, as well as the depth of the other characters on the show, will keep me coming back for more. As far as teen dramas go, Finding Carter feels the most engaging of the many that air.
Photo by: Coloribus
I saw a pin a few days ago that claimed that shaving with Baby Oil Gel was a lasting alternative to average shaving with a shaving cream.
Here is the original pin that grabbed my attention: http://www.pinterest.com/pin/391742867559856263/
The pinner stated that they experienced very smooth skin and had to shave even less. Let me just say, if anything says I have to shave less and I know it is good for my skin, I’m down to try it.
I went to the baby aisle and picked up the gel, which ran for about $4, maybe less. That is roughly the same price I pay for my Skintimate Shave Gel, so in that regards it was not a steal. The pin claimed, though, that this method would result in less shaving, hence less need for the gel and so on and so forth.
I have pretty sensitive skin on my legs, resulting in me having to use sensitive razors and not being able to use cheap shaving creams either. Baby Oil is so hydrating that I knew it would be alright for my razor rash, but I wasn’t too sure how it would hold up to the claim of it providing a long-lasting shave.
After I bought the gel, I was so excited to give it a go that I hopped into the shower and went to tame the beasts (my legs). I used my standard Venus Sensitive razor, which is really the only razor I can use.
Initially, I found it tough to shave with the gel being so thick, but once I got the hang of that, the actual shaving process wasn’t difficult. Though this was true, the gel still proved to be a problem. Since the gel has such a sticky consistency, the hair literally clung to the gel and the inside of the razor. My shower and shave time increased by over 5 minutes due to the fact that I had to hold the razor under water to remove the hair build up (gross, right?). I even attempted to swirl the razor in a cup of water to release some of the build up but this was unsuccessful. On top of all of that, once the gel finally came out of the razor, it stuck to the sides of my tub. My bath tub was covered with tiny black hairs that adhered to my tub due to the thickness of the gel.
Aside from the clumping and hairs, the biggest complain I had while using this method was that my razor had roughly half the longevity that it normally did. With traditional shaving methods, I got a few good days, maybe even a week, with the razors I use. With the Baby Oil method, the razor was shot after two uses. The lubricated strip on the razor withered away and the blades became rough and useless.
After my shave, my legs were magnificently soft. Like wow, these babies could stop the world kind of soft. But, when using Baby Oil you have to apply extra sun screen as it allows you to burn more, so that just aided to product waste.
If it is not already obvious at this point, I am not still using the Baby Oil method. I used about 1/4 of the bottle and quit. The cost of replacing my very expensive sensitive razors was not worth the soft skin.
I feel as though my hair maybe didn’t grow as fast, but certainly nothing drastic as the Pinterest post had made it seem. I still found myself shaving every day and taking much longer while doing so because I had to de-clump my razor.
Although Baby Oil provides you with soft legs, the effect it has on your razors, your bath tub, and your wallet is not worth it.
In this case, this Pinterest post was a fail. If you want to follow me on Pinterest to see more of what I am liking, just click here!